A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Administrator::insert() should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: system/Administrator.php

Line Number: 259

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/BackPlatform.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Administrator::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: system/Administrator.php

Line Number: 281

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/BackPlatform.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Menu::insert() should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: system/Menu.php

Line Number: 82

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/BackPlatform.php
Line: 9
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Menu::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: system/Menu.php

Line Number: 95

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/BackPlatform.php
Line: 9
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of MenuCategory::insert() should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: system/MenuCategory.php

Line Number: 58

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/Menu.php
Line: 29
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/BackPlatform.php
Line: 9
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of MenuCategory::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: system/MenuCategory.php

Line Number: 68

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/Menu.php
Line: 29
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/BackPlatform.php
Line: 9
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Logo::upload_image($sub_idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::upload_image($idx, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: system/Logo.php

Line Number: 100

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/BackPlatform.php
Line: 12
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Logo::delete_image($sub_idx = NULL) should be compatible with MY_Model::delete_image($idx, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: system/Logo.php

Line Number: 119

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/BackPlatform.php
Line: 12
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of SEO::insert($property, $property_idx, $data) should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: system/SEO.php

Line Number: 129

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of SEO::update($property, $property_idx, $data) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: system/SEO.php

Line Number: 151

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of SiteInfo::get() should be compatible with MY_Model::get($idx)

Filename: system/SiteInfo.php

Line Number: 24

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of SiteInfo::update() should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: system/SiteInfo.php

Line Number: 37

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Google::update() should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: system/Google.php

Line Number: 34

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 7
Function: __construct

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Article::insert() should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/Article.php

Line Number: 257

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Article::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/Article.php

Line Number: 285

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Article::upload_image($idx, $sub_idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::upload_image($idx, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/Article.php

Line Number: 307

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Article_category::insert() should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/Article_category.php

Line Number: 49

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Article.php
Line: 31
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Article_category::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/Article_category.php

Line Number: 61

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Article.php
Line: 31
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Article_tag::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/Article_tag.php

Line Number: 71

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Article.php
Line: 32
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of A2t::insert($article_idx, $tag_idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/A2t.php

Line Number: 134

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Article_tag.php
Line: 20
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Article.php
Line: 32
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of A2p::insert($article_idx, $product_idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/A2p.php

Line Number: 134

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Article.php
Line: 33
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Product::insert($temp_key) should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/Product.php

Line Number: 288

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/A2p.php
Line: 19
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Article.php
Line: 33
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Product::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/Product.php

Line Number: 305

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/A2p.php
Line: 19
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Article.php
Line: 33
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Product_category::insert() should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/Product_category.php

Line Number: 189

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Product.php
Line: 39
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/A2p.php
Line: 19
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Article.php
Line: 33
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Product_category::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/Product_category.php

Line Number: 202

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Product.php
Line: 39
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/A2p.php
Line: 19
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/customize/Article.php
Line: 33
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 8
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of A2c::insert($article_idx, $category_idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/A2c.php

Line Number: 132

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 14
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Tracking_code::insert($temp_key) should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/Tracking_code.php

Line Number: 35

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 9
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 207
Function: get_header_footer

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Tracking_code::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/Tracking_code.php

Line Number: 47

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 9
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 207
Function: get_header_footer

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of About::insert() should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/About.php

Line Number: 25

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 10
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 207
Function: get_header_footer

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of About::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/About.php

Line Number: 36

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 10
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 207
Function: get_header_footer

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Service::insert() should be compatible with MY_Model::insert($data, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/Service.php

Line Number: 25

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 11
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 207
Function: get_header_footer

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Service::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/Service.php

Line Number: 38

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 11
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 207
Function: get_header_footer

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Front_menu::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/Front_menu.php

Line Number: 102

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 12
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 207
Function: get_header_footer

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

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A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of User::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/User.php

Line Number: 89

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/user_helper.php
Line: 23
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/views/front/common/menu_mobile.php
Line: 17
Function: is_user_login

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 66
Function: view

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 207
Function: get_header_footer

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Cart_setting::get() should be compatible with MY_Model::get($idx)

Filename: system/Cart_setting.php

Line Number: 18

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/Cart.php
Line: 11
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/cart_helper.php
Line: 9
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/views/front/common/menu_mobile.php
Line: 23
Function: get_cart_quantity

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 66
Function: view

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 207
Function: get_header_footer

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Cart_setting::update() should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: system/Cart_setting.php

Line Number: 31

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/models/system/Cart.php
Line: 11
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/cart_helper.php
Line: 9
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/views/front/common/menu_mobile.php
Line: 23
Function: get_cart_quantity

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 66
Function: view

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 207
Function: get_header_footer

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

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A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Page_banner::update($idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::update($idx, $data)

Filename: customize/Page_banner.php

Line Number: 98

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 153
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/views/front/blog/main.php
Line: 1
Function: get_page_banner

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 214
Function: view

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Warning

Message: Declaration of Page_banner::upload_image($idx, $sub_idx) should be compatible with MY_Model::upload_image($idx, $temp_key = NULL)

Filename: customize/Page_banner.php

Line Number: 110

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/helpers/header_helper.php
Line: 153
Function: model

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/views/front/blog/main.php
Line: 1
Function: get_page_banner

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 214
Function: view

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

A PHP Error was encountered

Severity: Notice

Message: Trying to access array offset on value of type bool

Filename: blog/detail.php

Line Number: 19

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/views/front/blog/detail.php
Line: 19
Function: _error_handler

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 213
Function: view

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

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Severity: Notice

Message: Trying to access array offset on value of type bool

Filename: blog/detail.php

Line Number: 19

Backtrace:

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/views/front/blog/detail.php
Line: 19
Function: _error_handler

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 213
Function: view

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/application/controllers/Blog.php
Line: 224
Function: article

File: /home2/beta/public_html/lupopi/index.php
Line: 317
Function: require_once

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是一個以前合作很不ok的設計師介紹的

他介紹一個設計師給我

然後這個設計師的朋友是賣衣服的 想做網站

做完了這個網站

賣衣服的朋友又介紹他的部落客朋友來做網站

部落客又介紹畫畫的朋友做網站

後面太多說不完

反正客人就是這樣來的

 

有時候想與人為善

主要的目的是不想要斷了後路

就像上面這位不OK的設計師朋友

後面卻帶來了一堆客戶 (想想這一串也七八年過去了)

但也不是所有機掰的朋友後面都會有這一串

 

有些客戶一直忍他

想說他應該會有不錯的客戶可以介紹

越是這樣想

就越不會有客戶介紹 (這很神奇)

 

那這條線應該要怎麼拿捏呢?

我們無法預期這個奇怪的客戶會不會再介紹客戶

我們可以做的就是跟這個客戶 "保持距離"

我也曾經懷疑過

人與人的態度是可以這樣的嗎?

保持在一個很模糊的狀態?

但後來我的觀察是

有的人在這方面做得很好

講難聽一點就是很油條

表面上好像跟你很好

但你要跟他怎樣的時候

他總是好像ok又好像不ok

總是沒有很明確的答案

我是覺得 要我這樣應對別人 有點機掰

所以我自己的做法是

"公事公辦" "照規矩來"

 

簡單說就是該做的一步都不能少

不能因為朋友就不簽約 不拿簽約金

如果真的不想做

可以報價 但就說沒空做

如果連報價都很困難

那就說無法報

可以的話

請個對外的窗口幫你擋 (如果有這個預算的話)

弄個幾次他就會對你沒興趣

去找別人了

既不得罪翻桌

也可以保留關係

至於人家會不會再介紹案子給你?

老實說我覺得你不要太期待

他沒給你帶來麻煩就不錯了 還介紹案子咧...

 

另外再聊一下我看到的負面案例

其實我自己以前也是這樣

講好聽一點是直來直往

但這樣的行為很容易讓別人見縫插針

如果這個朋友/客戶 跟你合得來 就算了

合不來就會到處給你亂講話

大概兩三年前 我有個很不熟的朋友

一開始好像很熱心要幫我推廣

結果有一天

有另一個共同朋友要介紹一個購物車的客戶給我

聽說是女性用品界很有名的老闆

這個 "熱心" 的朋友就跟這個客戶講

"路老闆的案子很貴"

"報價都要百萬以上"

因為他自己公司也有類似的產品

為了推給這個老闆 就說出了這樣的話

結果聽說這老闆就信了

有沒有用他們家的產品我不知道

但後來就沒找我聊

 

其實也還好啦

做案子就是緣分

我也遇過那種搞砸了繞了一大圈最後還是來找我的

多花了時間 多花了錢

"早知道一開始就找你做"

我也是笑笑

 

你看這案例

我也沒去說他什麼

但他就擺你一道

我不會去檢討他怎麼這麼雞掰

我只會覺得 會不會是我的形象就是這樣

所以讓人家有機會這樣講我?

也許如果我的形象是比較軟的

那客戶就算聽到這樣的話

也會覺得 "路老闆應該不是這樣的人"

 

反正 anyway

我覺得做人還是軟一點

客氣一點

世道就是這樣

要不你就很厲害 讓全世界都照你的規則走

但在那之前

你可能要先順應著世道活下去